Choosing the Right Funeral Music: Songs That Bring Comfort and Reflection
Music has a powerful way of touching the heart and bringing comfort during times of loss. The right song can honor a loved one’s memory, tell their story, and offer healing to those who attend the service. At Peel Funeral Home, we understand how meaningful music can be, and we help families select songs that reflect the personality, values, and life of their loved one.
Whether a family prefers hymns, classical pieces, contemporary songs, or cultural music, the goal is to create an atmosphere of reflection and remembrance that supports everyone through their grief.
Why Music Matters in a Funeral or Memorial Service
Funeral music plays an important role in creating a comforting and meaningful environment. It can:
- Bring peace and calm to grieving hearts
- Highlight a loved one’s personality or beliefs
- Support prayer, reflection, and emotional release
- Connect guests through shared memories and feelings
Thoughtful music selection helps set the tone, whether the family wishes the service to feel traditional, uplifting, spiritual, or personalized.
Popular Types of Funeral Music
There is no right or wrong choice when selecting music. What matters most is choosing what feels appropriate and meaningful for your family. Here are common categories that can guide your selection:
- Traditional Hymns
Classic religious songs rooted in faith
When It Fits Best:
Church services, spiritual families
- Classical Music
Instrumental pieces known for calm and beauty
When It Fits Best:
Reflection, quiet moments, visitation
- Contemporary Songs
Modern songs that hold sentimental value
When It Fits Best:
Celebrations of life, personalized services
- Cultural or Heritage Music
Songs tied to traditions and ancestry
When It Fits Best:
Honoring family roots and cultural identity
- Instrumental or Acoustic
Gentle background music
When It Fits Best: During arrival, slideshow, or quiet reflection
Choosing Songs That Honor Your Loved One
Many families choose music based on what their loved one enjoyed or how they lived their life. Consider the following:
- Did they have a favorite artist, hymn, or genre?
- Were they known for a joyful, peaceful, or spiritual personality?
- Are there songs that reflect key life moments such as their wedding song, a favorite holiday song, or a tune that reflects their hobbies or passions?
You can also choose songs that speak to hope, eternal life, comfort, love, or celebration.
Placement of Music During the Service
Music can be included at different points throughout the service. A common structure includes:
- Before the Service: Soft background music as guests arrive
- Opening Song: Sets a tone of reflection or prayer
- Mid-Service Song: Often played after readings or a eulogy
- Slideshow or Tribute Song: Selected to reflect the person’s life story
- Closing Song: Brings comfort and a sense of peace as guests leave
Families may choose two or more songs to accompany the flow of the service.
Song Suggestions for Comfort and Reflection
Here are some examples of commonly chosen songs across different styles. Families are encouraged to personalize selections further.
Traditional Hymns:
- Amazing Grace
- How Great Thou Art
- It Is Well With My Soul
Classical and Instrumental:
- Canon in D (Pachelbel)
- Ave Maria
- Clair de Lune
Contemporary Choices:
- You Raise Me Up by Josh Groban
- Somewhere Over the Rainbow by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
- Wind Beneath My Wings by Bette Midler
These selections are only suggestions. Peel Funeral Home is happy to assist with additional options to match your loved one’s personality and beliefs.
Including Live Music or Musicians
Families may also choose live music to create a more personal experience. Options include:
- A soloist or choir
- A pianist or organist
- A violinist, guitarist, or harpist
- Family or friends performing a special song
Live music often feels more intimate and can offer a touching tribute when performed by someone who knew the loved one personally.
Tips for Selecting Meaningful Music
- Listen to the lyrics to ensure the message aligns with the tone of the service
- Choose songs that bring comfort to family and friends
- Consider a balance of reflective, hopeful, and uplifting pieces
- Do not feel limited to traditional music if it does not reflect your loved one
Music is a deeply personal way to celebrate a life. What matters most is that it feels right for your family.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many songs should be included in a funeral service?
Most families choose between three and five songs, depending on the length and structure of the service.
Can we use recorded music instead of live musicians?
Yes. Many families select recorded songs, especially if they have special meaning or were favorites of the loved one.
Is it appropriate to choose upbeat or joyful songs?
Yes. Some services aim to celebrate life, and joyful music can remind guests of happy memories.
Can family members perform a song?
Absolutely. A musical tribute can be a meaningful way for loved ones to honor the memory of the person who has passed.
Do we need to choose religious music for the service?
Only if it matches your family’s beliefs. Many families choose a mix of spiritual, sentimental, and personal selections.
Music is a powerful way to honor the life, spirit, and memory of a loved one. At Peel Funeral Home, our team is here to help guide families in selecting music that brings comfort, reflects their values, and creates a meaningful experience for everyone who attends.











